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  • Home
  • Meet Kathy
  • Events
  • Work With Kathy
    • Design & Facilitate Powerful EDI Workshops
    • References
    • Workshops
      • Foundations of Equity, Inclusion and Social Justice
      • Creating Inclusive, Socially Just Campus Environments
      • Deepening Multicultural Competencies: Strategies for Professional Development
      • Training of Trainers Program to Design and Facilitate Workshops on Diversity, Equity and Inclusion
      • Developing a Team of Inclusion Practitioners
      • Facilitating Difficult Dialogues: Navigating Triggering Events
      • White Ally Development Program
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    • Radio Show
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      • Leading White Accountability Groups
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      • …But I’m Not Racist
      • Turn The Tide
        • Book Worksheets
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    Creating change,  Diversity training,  Professional Development

    How Dare You Say That! Dealing With Constructive Criticism

    August 7, 2019 /

    Okay. I’ll be the first to admit it: It’s easier for me to give people feedback than to receive it. And you’re responding, “Whew! Now I don’t feel so bad!” But constructive criticism is just that: constructive. Not personal attacks, not snarky comments, but constructive suggestions for improvement. And improvement in ourselves and in the world is something we all are seeking.   “Whatever words we utter should be chosen with care for people will hear them and be influenced by them for good or ill.” – Buddha   Giving And Receiving Feedback Across Vast Differences Most folks take constructive criticism very, very personally. Can you relate? When you’re training…

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